THE REASONS WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIPS DON'T LAST.
Joachim Mkwawa.
Many Relationships these days take a drastic turn after few months.
Most time it's not intended,or planed by the partners but it becomes unavoidable so as to save the friendship that once existed.
These nosedive does not just happen it may be as a repetition of some characters or attitudes which one or both spouse detest.
Relationships are like newborns and must be handled as such else it will not survive.Your Relationships don't last because of these reasons listed below;
(1)You do not take each other into considerations before making vital decisions;
√As little as this may seem it has a way of making the other person feel insignificant or useless;the next thing on their mind will be how to exist the relationship.
It may even start building inferiority complex in them.Making them feel they are valueless and no one wants to stay where they are irrelevant.
(2)You did not take out time to check out your comparability;
√Many a times people jump into a relationship immediately they fell small butterflies in their stomach, not realizing that with time those will fly away as they came and they will be left with regality to face.
Whether we like it or not,the truth is we can not be comparable with everyone no matter how much we like them initially. True colors will start unfolding with time.
(3)You do not Realize that they have a mind of their own;
√Yes,most times we get blinded with love that we forget to remember that we are still dealing with Humans that have their sense intact and hence should have a mind of their own.So,most times when making decisions we should left them give their input, argue with ours and not.
(4)You are not open to change;
√Some of us have grown so rigid with time that we do not realize how important change is to is and the world of large.
When you a letting someone into your heart and space of large;You must take place with time because of individual differences. You should be ready to adjust some things to accommodate the other.
Relationships are all about little comprises from time to time.
By;
Joachim Mkwawa
Motivational Speaker
New Vision with Common Skills.
mnyausiblog.blogspot.com
If you find this to be true;please feel free to drop comments and share the article.
Joachim Mkwawa.
Many Relationships these days take a drastic turn after few months.
Most time it's not intended,or planed by the partners but it becomes unavoidable so as to save the friendship that once existed.
These nosedive does not just happen it may be as a repetition of some characters or attitudes which one or both spouse detest.
Relationships are like newborns and must be handled as such else it will not survive.Your Relationships don't last because of these reasons listed below;
(1)You do not take each other into considerations before making vital decisions;
√As little as this may seem it has a way of making the other person feel insignificant or useless;the next thing on their mind will be how to exist the relationship.
It may even start building inferiority complex in them.Making them feel they are valueless and no one wants to stay where they are irrelevant.
(2)You did not take out time to check out your comparability;
√Many a times people jump into a relationship immediately they fell small butterflies in their stomach, not realizing that with time those will fly away as they came and they will be left with regality to face.
Whether we like it or not,the truth is we can not be comparable with everyone no matter how much we like them initially. True colors will start unfolding with time.
(3)You do not Realize that they have a mind of their own;
√Yes,most times we get blinded with love that we forget to remember that we are still dealing with Humans that have their sense intact and hence should have a mind of their own.So,most times when making decisions we should left them give their input, argue with ours and not.
(4)You are not open to change;
√Some of us have grown so rigid with time that we do not realize how important change is to is and the world of large.
When you a letting someone into your heart and space of large;You must take place with time because of individual differences. You should be ready to adjust some things to accommodate the other.
Relationships are all about little comprises from time to time.
By;
Joachim Mkwawa
Motivational Speaker
New Vision with Common Skills.
mnyausiblog.blogspot.com
If you find this to be true;please feel free to drop comments and share the article.
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